Immy Chua

Just Being and Let things Happen….

Why we like to ask why ? Why don’t we ask Why not ?


Chuah Huan Bee is my dear Aunty, she told me to ask myself WHY NOT me who had cancer rather than asking why I am the victim of cancer!

When there is a tragedy or illness, we tend to seek for answer outside ourself because it is much easier and less painful….and we continue attracting the same energy again again and again.

Asking why is in denial! Asking WHY NOT is seeking salvation….the undoing of fear and separation……and the journey to the greater joining and The New Begining. This is my experience, what about yours?


Author: Immy Chua

A day after I turned 42, I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Grade 4 bladder cancer….what a surprise birthday gift! 16 years ago on my birthday, my late brother was diagnosed with leukemia. He passed away after 6 months of chemotherapy. My doctors told me they were unable to cure me….as my cancer is an aggressive type. The statistic with chemotherapy treatment is 45% in 5 years. I refused chemotherapy because of my brother. So, I asked if I don’t do anything, what would happen? My doctor told me….if I don’t do anything, after 3 months, my cancer will spread to every parts of my body. I told my doctor, 3 months, I still have plenty of time to find a solution. So..I rejected the death sentence and went searching for solution……..My cancer journey start ….. This blog is about my exciting cancer journey which helps me to discover and reassess my life, my relationship with my family, my so-called career goal, my diet, my view, my belief…..everything…..for the past 2 years… I wish it will help everyone to look at illness as a blessing and opportunity to heal rather than seeing yourself as a victim.

3 thoughts on “Why we like to ask why ? Why don’t we ask Why not ?

  1. A revelation and a rejuvenation

  2. Pingback: How do you know when you are healed? Part 1 « Cancer is A Blessing and An Opportunity To Heal

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